MERLE HAGGARD HAD 38 NUMBER-ONE HITS. THE SONG THAT DEFINED HIM WASN’T ONE OF THEM. IT NEVER CHARTED AT ALL. Everyone knows “Okie from Muskogee.” Many know “Mama Tried.” But the song other artists have recorded more than anything else Haggard ever wrote was buried on the back of a 45 nobody was supposed to flip over. In 1967, Haggard was falling out of love with his wife, Bonnie Owens, and planning to leave her. She knew. They were walking through an airport when he looked over at her and said he thought he’d started loving her again today. She told him to turn the line around. He wrote the rest a few days later, alone in a motel room in Dallas. On February 1, 1968 — the day after cutting his next No. 1 — he recorded it in a single session and stuck it on the B-side. It wasn’t a love song. It was a man telling his wife to her face that he’d been packed and ready to go, and had changed his mind. Some songs are pushed to No. 1. This one never charted — and outlived every song that did. Have you heard Merle’s own version — or only somebody else’s?
Merle Haggard’s Song That Never Needed a Hit Parade Merle Haggard had plenty of songs that filled jukeboxes, radio playlists,…