MERLE HAGGARD DIVORCED HER IN 1978 — BUT SHE NEVER LEFT HIS STAGE. AND HE NEVER STOPPED LOVING HER. In 1965, Merle Haggard married Bonnie Owens — a woman who had already been married to Buck Owens. Two Bakersfield legends. One woman between them. Bonnie didn’t just stand beside Merle. She wrote down his lyrics when he couldn’t. She shaped his harmonies. She co-wrote “Today I Started Loving You Again” — a song born from five words Merle whispered to her one quiet night: “I finally have time to love you again.” Bonnie grabbed a pen and said: “What an idea for a song.” By morning, it was finished. Over 400 artists have covered it since. But in 1978, the marriage ended. Merle had been unfaithful. The divorce was final. And yet — Bonnie came back. Not as his wife. As his backup singer. She stood on his stage night after night, singing the love song they wrote together, beside the man who broke her heart. She did that for over 20 more years. In 1996, Merle said four words that explained everything: “I still love Bonnie.” She passed in 2006. He followed in 2016. But somewhere between those years — there was one night on stage when he turned to her mid-song, and everyone in the room understood what “Today I Started Loving You Again” really meant.
Merle Haggard, Bonnie Owens, and the Love Song That Outlived a Marriage Country music has always made room for complicated…