THE HAIRPIN MERLE HAGGARD KEPT—LONG AFTER BONNIE OWENS FORGOT. Backstage before a show, Merle Haggard sat quietly with a tiny silver hairpin in his hand. It once belonged to Bonnie Owens. Years earlier, she had slipped it from her hair and laughingly told him, “Now you’ve got something of mine to keep you honest.” But time changed things. When Bonnie Owens later struggled with memory and sometimes didn’t recognize the people around her, Merle Haggard still carried that hairpin in his pocket. A stagehand once said he would slowly turn it in his fingers before walking out. That night, when Merle Haggard sang “Today I Started Loving You Again,” the crowd thought it was just another classic performance. They didn’t know he was singing for a woman who could no longer remember the love behind the song. Did Bonnie Owens ever hear that performance—and for just a moment, remember the man who was singing it for her?
The Hairpin Merle Haggard Kept — Long After Bonnie Owens Forgot Backstage before a show, the noise of the crowd…