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LORETTA LYNN STAYED THROUGH THE DRINKING, THE CHEATING AND THE FIGHTS. AFTER 48 YEARS OF MARRIAGE, SHE AND DOOLITTLE WERE GIVEN ONLY 225 DAYS OF THEIR 49TH YEAR. Loretta Webb married Oliver “Doolittle” Lynn on January 10, 1948. She was 15. He was 21. They had known each other for only about a month. Before long, they left Kentucky for Washington, where Loretta became a mother and the couple eventually raised six children. Doolittle gave Loretta the first guitar that changed her life—a $17 instrument from Sears. He pushed her to sing in public when she was still frightened of the stage, helped arrange early performances and traveled with her to promote “I’m a Honky Tonk Girl.” Without him, Loretta often said, there might never have been a Loretta Lynn. But their marriage was never a simple country love song. Doolittle drank heavily, cheated and became violent. Loretta fought back, stayed for her children and continued loving the man who could encourage her dream one day and wound her the next. The truth entered her music. “Don’t Come Home A-Drinkin’,” “Fist City” and many other songs carried pieces of the life she lived behind closed doors. Loretta later said she had never written a song without her husband somewhere inside it. On January 10, 1996, they completed 48 years of marriage. As Doolittle’s health failed, Loretta sang “Wouldn’t It Be Great” to him—the last song she remembered singing before his death. He died on August 22, 1996, at 69. Only 225 days of their 49th year had passed. Years later, Loretta did not pretend their marriage had been perfect. She simply said they had shared 48 years—and she still wished he were there. Doolittle gave her the guitar. Their troubled life gave her the truth. Loretta turned both into songs that millions of women finally recognized as their own.