MERLE HAGGARD HAD BEEN MARRIED FOUR TIMES BEFORE THERESA ANN LANE. SHE BECAME THE WOMAN WHO STAYED TO THE END — BUT THEY WERE GIVEN ONLY 208 DAYS OF THEIR 23RD YEAR. By the time Merle married Theresa on September 11, 1993, he had already lived several lifetimes. He had survived a broken childhood, San Quentin, decades on the road, four failed marriages and financial trouble. That same year, he filed for bankruptcy. Theresa did not meet the young Merle who was fighting his way out of prison. She met the older man who had already become a country legend, but still had not found a peaceful place to land. Together, they raised two children, Jenessa and Ben. Merle later wrote “I’m Still Your Daddy” for the young family he was finally present enough to know, openly admitting that his past had not always made him the father he wanted to be. Theresa remained beside him through lung cancer surgery, declining health and the final months when pneumonia repeatedly sent him to the hospital. Their son Ben grew into the guitarist standing beside his father onstage. On September 11, 2015, Merle and Theresa completed 22 years of marriage. Merle died at his California home on April 6, 2016—his 79th birthday—with family and friends around him. Only 208 days of their 23rd year had passed. Merle spent his career singing about broken homes, lonely men and love that could not last. With Theresa, the man who had written so many endings finally found the woman who stayed for his last one.

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