THEY BURIED HIM IN A CLOVER PASTURE BEHIND HIS OWN HOUSE. HIS TOUR BUS WAS PARKED SIDEWAYS TO BLOCK THE WIND. Merle Haggard was born in a converted boxcar outside Bakersfield and did nearly three years in San Quentin before he ever cut a record. He sang for the men country radio would rather not look at. Convicts. Drifters. Men behind on rent. On April 6, 2016, Merle died at his home in Palo Cedro, California. It was his 79th birthday. A week earlier, he had told his sons that this would be the day. The funeral was private, held April 9 on his ranch. Fifteen rows of folding chairs in the grass. His bus, the Super Chief, angled across the field as a windbreak. Merle had planned all of it himself — he picked the songs and asked Marty Stuart to officiate. It opened with a recording of Lefty Frizzell singing “I Love You a Thousand Ways.” Connie Smith sang “Precious Memories.” She and Stuart sang “Silver Wings.” What was left of the Strangers sat in the chairs. Then Kris Kristofferson stood up. Halfway through “Sing Me Back Home,” the wind took his lyrics off the stand. He smiled at it and kept singing. California sent him to San Quentin at twenty and pardoned him at thirty-four. Nashville put him in the Hall of Fame at fifty-seven. Bakersfield, the town whose jail he kept escaping from, got around to putting his name on a building in April 2018. About three hundred people came. It would have been his eighty-first birthday.

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LORETTA LYNN STAYED THROUGH THE DRINKING, THE CHEATING AND THE FIGHTS. AFTER 48 YEARS OF MARRIAGE, SHE AND DOOLITTLE WERE GIVEN ONLY 225 DAYS OF THEIR 49TH YEAR. Loretta Webb married Oliver “Doolittle” Lynn on January 10, 1948. She was 15. He was 21. They had known each other for only about a month. Before long, they left Kentucky for Washington, where Loretta became a mother and the couple eventually raised six children. Doolittle gave Loretta the first guitar that changed her life—a $17 instrument from Sears. He pushed her to sing in public when she was still frightened of the stage, helped arrange early performances and traveled with her to promote “I’m a Honky Tonk Girl.” Without him, Loretta often said, there might never have been a Loretta Lynn. But their marriage was never a simple country love song. Doolittle drank heavily, cheated and became violent. Loretta fought back, stayed for her children and continued loving the man who could encourage her dream one day and wound her the next. The truth entered her music. “Don’t Come Home A-Drinkin’,” “Fist City” and many other songs carried pieces of the life she lived behind closed doors. Loretta later said she had never written a song without her husband somewhere inside it. On January 10, 1996, they completed 48 years of marriage. As Doolittle’s health failed, Loretta sang “Wouldn’t It Be Great” to him—the last song she remembered singing before his death. He died on August 22, 1996, at 69. Only 225 days of their 49th year had passed. Years later, Loretta did not pretend their marriage had been perfect. She simply said they had shared 48 years—and she still wished he were there. Doolittle gave her the guitar. Their troubled life gave her the truth. Loretta turned both into songs that millions of women finally recognized as their own.

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