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NASHVILLE, JANUARY 1970. MARTY ROBBINS HAD JUST HAD HIS CHEST CUT OPEN. THE DOCTORS CALLED IT EXPERIMENTAL. HIS WIFE CALLED IT TERRIFYING. MARTY CALLED THE RECORD LABEL AND TOLD THEM THE SINGLE WAS READY TO GO. In August 1969, Marty suffered a massive heart attack while on tour in Ohio. He was transferred to St. Thomas Hospital in Nashville and given three to six months to live. He was 44 years old, at the peak of his career, and the music industry quietly began writing his obituary. On January 27, 1970, he underwent triple bypass surgery — one of the first patients in the country to receive that operation, at a time when the procedure was still considered experimental. Most men spent months in bed afterward. Marty spent that time finishing a song he had been writing for his wife Marizona — the woman who had sat in that hospital corridor and refused to leave. “My Woman, My Woman, My Wife” came out that same January. It went to #1. Three months after the surgery, he accepted the Academy of Country Music’s Man of the Decade award. The following year the song won the Grammy for Best Country Song. He never mentioned the surgery in his acceptance speech. Then, because this was Marty Robbins, he went back to racing NASCAR at 150 miles per hour. His doctors told him to stop. He told them he appreciated the concern. The song itself — what he actually wrote into those verses during the weeks between the heart attack and the operating table — carries something most listeners have never slowed down enough to notice. Read the lyrics knowing exactly when he wrote them, and the whole record changes meaning. Have you ever seen someone turn the worst moment of their life into the most beautiful thing they ever made?